When shit happens, you can either count on yourself to wake up, or to count on your friends to help you out.
Let's sink deeper into reality.
Scenario 1:
You go to your group of friends, you pour out your feelings, you cry, you sob, you drink, you become sober, you kept insisting that you wanna slit your wrist, you think the world is ending, you think the life you are leading is unfair, you want the world to stop moving, you want, everything your way..
and after all your rantings and moanings, you pause for a moment, waiting for your friends to say something.
Let me tell you something. Not all your friends are going to react the same way. Yes, of course, you hang out together, you clicked together but you certainly, are not the same person. You do not think alike.
Friend type 1 would probably react:
"What's the big fuss about?"
These are the type of people who doesn't bother what your problems are about. The only reason of their existance in your "group" of people is just to have fun. If you go beyond the fun line, they will probably back out, and go find some other fun people to hang out with.
Friend type 2 would probably react:
"Hmm..what happened? Tell me..tell..tell me lah..."
These are the type who also don't really care about how you feel, but what your problems are.
Nick name: "KEH POH CHI". They are not really concerned about you, but they just want to know what your problems are. You know why? So they can have something to talk about when they have nothing to talk about. These are the type who keeps the daily news running. Possible career to pursue : Reporters.
Friend type 3 would probably react:
"Hmm..why lah?? what happened??..are you ok?? nevermind la..this things happen..you know what, I used to have such problems, but this is how the way I solved it..(insert the kinds of solutions to your problems)"
These are the type whom you can call your best buds. They are always there for you, lending you their shoulders but some people might not like friends like those. Who are they to tell you what's best for you?
Friend type 4 would probably react:
"Aah. Shit happens. Wake up and be glad that it's over."
What is there for me to say more? Realistics.
They don't tell you anything more, they don't advise you what to do, but they make one comment. A sweeping statement, and that's enough for you to realise that it's not a big deal afterall, and trust me, you will be back to reality after.
I am not saying that it's right or wrong, with the way people react to certain kinds of situations. Like I have said, most people do not have the same wavelengths. They don't think coherently. They react to circumstances differently, from what they experienced and how they were brought up.
I personally like Friend Type 4.
Let's sink deeper into reality.
Scenario 1:
You go to your group of friends, you pour out your feelings, you cry, you sob, you drink, you become sober, you kept insisting that you wanna slit your wrist, you think the world is ending, you think the life you are leading is unfair, you want the world to stop moving, you want, everything your way..
and after all your rantings and moanings, you pause for a moment, waiting for your friends to say something.
Let me tell you something. Not all your friends are going to react the same way. Yes, of course, you hang out together, you clicked together but you certainly, are not the same person. You do not think alike.
Friend type 1 would probably react:
"What's the big fuss about?"
These are the type of people who doesn't bother what your problems are about. The only reason of their existance in your "group" of people is just to have fun. If you go beyond the fun line, they will probably back out, and go find some other fun people to hang out with.
Friend type 2 would probably react:
"Hmm..what happened? Tell me..tell..tell me lah..."
These are the type who also don't really care about how you feel, but what your problems are.
Nick name: "KEH POH CHI". They are not really concerned about you, but they just want to know what your problems are. You know why? So they can have something to talk about when they have nothing to talk about. These are the type who keeps the daily news running. Possible career to pursue : Reporters.
Friend type 3 would probably react:
"Hmm..why lah?? what happened??..are you ok?? nevermind la..this things happen..you know what, I used to have such problems, but this is how the way I solved it..(insert the kinds of solutions to your problems)"
These are the type whom you can call your best buds. They are always there for you, lending you their shoulders but some people might not like friends like those. Who are they to tell you what's best for you?
Friend type 4 would probably react:
"Aah. Shit happens. Wake up and be glad that it's over."
What is there for me to say more? Realistics.
They don't tell you anything more, they don't advise you what to do, but they make one comment. A sweeping statement, and that's enough for you to realise that it's not a big deal afterall, and trust me, you will be back to reality after.
I am not saying that it's right or wrong, with the way people react to certain kinds of situations. Like I have said, most people do not have the same wavelengths. They don't think coherently. They react to circumstances differently, from what they experienced and how they were brought up.
I personally like Friend Type 4.
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